Published by Paul Bailey on 11 Jan 2008 at 04:26 pm
New Year New You?
Congratulations on making it through Christmas/the Holiday period and New Year!
It’s often one of the most stressful times of the year for many people.
People often ask me as a coach what New Year resolutions I have made. I’m afraid to say that I never make them. Let me explain though. Every three to six month I take a sheet of paper and draw a circle. I divide up the circle into 8 sections. In each section I write a part of my life that is important to me, eg Health, Career, Home, etc. I then grade myself in each section and this helps me identify areas that are lacking and need a little extra attention.
Just out side of the circle I write why these are important to me. Then I write down then goal I have for that section.
Finally I write a one line statement for the next step I need to take to move me one day closer to that goal.
Then I put that piece of paper away and don’t look at it for another 3-6 months.
Each time I start a new “Wheel of Life” as it’s called, I review the old one. I’m always amazed that 90-100% of the previous goals I set myself have been achieved or due to a change in direction were no longer a goal of mine.
So I don’t need to make resolutions once a year, as I make then 2-4 times throughout the year. This type of breaking down your goals into smaller chunks makes you far more likely to succeed!
If you would like a copy of a Wheel of Life for yourself, just contact me with your email address and I’d be delighted to send a template over to you straight away.
Oh and Happy 2008!
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Dan O'Neil on 14 Jan 2008 at 17:55 pm #
Hi Paul, Like the site - I’d never considered having one totally in Wordpress before - so much simpler!
I’m a huge fan of the Wheel of Life, it really helps to focus your attention on things that are important to you and gives you a great way of tracking your progress.
Keep up the good work!
Kind regards,
Dan O’Neil
http://www.aquariuscoaching.co.uk
Gal Baras on 17 Jan 2008 at 12:00 pm #
I think that people nowadays are pretty cynical about “new year resolutions” and as soon as they state them, they know they won’t live up to their promises.
Your life wheel suggestion should be a nice change for most people, which they can use and learn to trust, because there is no bad history with it.
Good idea!