Archive for January, 2008

Published by Paul Bailey on 21 Jan 2008

Blue Monday :-(

I heard on the radio this morning that today the 21st January is considered the day that most people will suffer from the post Christmas and holiday blues.

I must admit I certainly feel a little bit like I need another holiday. It’s always hard getting back into a routine when you have a break and it can make you feel a little bit down.

However, getting back into a routine is just what you need to snap you back into shape. Consider what you were doing before the holiday period and what you aren’t yet doing today.

For example, I had been going to the gym at 6:45am every Monday – Friday. So felt very pleased with myself that I had been able to go to the gym 5 times per week for almost 3 months. Over the last part of December I let things slip as I wasn’t at work and for the most part wasn’t at home so my local gym was out of reach.

Now that I’m back, it has taken a while to get back into the routine. The more I avoid the routine the more I feel that I’m letting myself down.

So I decided, to stop beating myself up, and just get back into the swing of things. It gives me a sense of structure and knowing that I’m doing what’s good for me. By the end of the week I know my mood will have lifted and I’ll feel better and healthier. That alone has given me something to look forward to!

Published by Paul Bailey on 11 Jan 2008

New Year New You?

Congratulations on making it through Christmas/the Holiday period and New Year!

It’s often one of the most stressful times of the year for many people.

People often ask me as a coach what New Year resolutions I have made. I’m afraid to say that I never make them. Let me explain though. Every three to six month I take a sheet of paper and draw a circle. I divide up the circle into 8 sections. In each section I write a part of my life that is important to me, eg Health, Career, Home, etc. I then grade myself in each section and this helps me identify areas that are lacking and need a little extra attention.

Just out side of the circle I write why these are important to me. Then I write down then goal I have for that section.

Finally I write a one line statement for the next step I need to take to move me one day closer to that goal.

Then I put that piece of paper away and don’t look at it for another 3-6 months.

Each time I start a new “Wheel of Life” as it’s called, I review the old one. I’m always amazed that 90-100% of the previous goals I set myself have been achieved or due to a change in direction were no longer a goal of mine.

So I don’t need to make resolutions once a year, as I make then 2-4 times throughout the year. This type of breaking down your goals into smaller chunks makes you far more likely to succeed!

If you would like a copy of a Wheel of Life for yourself, just contact me with your email address and I’d be delighted to send a template over to you straight away.

Oh and Happy 2008!